{"id":558,"date":"2022-04-13T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-13T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/?p=558"},"modified":"2022-04-13T10:05:43","modified_gmt":"2022-04-13T04:35:43","slug":"write-their-own-matrimonial-profile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/write-their-own-matrimonial-profile\/","title":{"rendered":"Should one write their own matrimonial profile?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am reminded of this story said to involve Abraham Lincoln:<\/p>\n<p>One day, a White House official walked in on Lincoln while he was polishing his shoes.&nbsp; Surprised, he asked, &#8220;Mr. President, you polish your own shoes?!&#8221;&nbsp; Lincoln&#8217;s response, &#8220;Why, whose shoes do you polish?&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_5624\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-5624\" style=\"width: 480px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5624 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites.jpg\" alt=\"creating-matrimonial-profile\" width=\"480\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites.jpg 480w, https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites-414x276.jpg 414w, https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites-470x313.jpg 470w, https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites-130x86.jpg 130w, https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/best-sites-187x124.jpg 187w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-5624\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>To create our profile or not to create?<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Your profile on a matchmaking site is meant to give someone an idea of who you are and to intrigue someone enough in wanting to learn more about you.&nbsp; Nobody knows you better than you.&nbsp; So, write your own profile!<\/p>\n<p>Sure, you can have a close friend or relative view the profile and provide feedback on whether the profile accurately describes who you are as a person. Just don&#8217;t leave the profile&#8217;s entire creation to someone who thinks they know you, but may not truly know what makes you tick.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, that includes most parents who are often not only clueless, but also so focused on making their son or daughter&#8217;s profile shine that they apply way too much polish.&nbsp; Someone who has looked at enough profiles can easily identify such too-good-to-be-true profiles.<\/p>\n<p>So, again, write your own profile.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t be shy as you go about it.&nbsp; Keep it real, yet remember that a profile is in some ways an ad \u2013 its objective is to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jodi365.com\/singledout\/express-interest-on-matrimonial-site\/\">pique curiosity<\/a> and interest.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t try too hard, though, and don&#8217;t feel the need to put it all out there.&nbsp; Like ads, the best profiles are authentic and leave you wanting more.<\/p>\n\n\n<p>Editor&#8217;s note:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can find this on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.quora.com\/Should-one-create-their-own-matrimonial-profile\" target=\"_blank\" aria-label=\"undefined (opens in a new tab)\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Quora<\/a>. <\/p>\n<div style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px;\" class=\"sharethis-inline-share-buttons\" ><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am reminded of this story said to involve Abraham Lincoln: One day, a White House official walked in on Lincoln while he was polishing his shoes.&nbsp; Surprised, he asked, &#8220;Mr. President, you polish your own shoes?!&#8221;&nbsp; Lincoln&#8217;s response, &#8220;Why, whose shoes do you polish?&#8221; Your profile on a matchmaking site is meant to give [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":5623,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-558","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationships"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.3.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Should one write their own matrimonial profile? | SingledOut by Jodi365.com<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"If you are wondering if you need to write your own matrimonial profile, look no futher for answers. 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